Thursday, November 07, 2013

"Help! He threatens to kill me if i abort his baby!"

"Help!"
...and then my eyes popped as I read the first word of the lengthy mail. Dunno,but whenever I start to read any stuff that begins with "Help",my heart beats a little faster than normal. Automatically in my mind's eye,i see a He/She in distress and i'm like how does Meme help now?
   Would appreciate if you took time to read this mail carefully and give your advise to this lady in distress:

Help! I hate that I sound desperate; but yes i'm desperate,very desperate in fact. If I do not get help any time soon,i'll be dead meat.My fiance has vowed to take my life if I abort his baby.
I'll tell my story. As I write I'm in tears.My mind goes back to three years ago when I first met Paul. I'd just graduated from the university of Benin and was awaiting service. Paul was already a staff in a private firm as an assistant Manager. We fell in love,or so I thought. I thought the world revolved around him.
 Paul was very good to me,took care of me and my family. I never lacked anything. I was glad I had found the best. But,there was a flaw. He was a chronic womanizer. More like a psychological thingy(if you know what I mean) Paul chased anything on skirt,both young and old.
 At first I didn't think it was that serious;thought it was a fleeting phase that would soon pass. As time went on,i discovered that was not to be. His condition worsened. He started to chase even my neighbours,and my friends.
I told him I could no longer put up with the relationship. But Paul would cry like a baby,and because I loved him,i stayed back. He proposed to me last year and I accepted. Of course I wasn't seeing him with women anymore so I felt he'd changed for the best. 
 Then three months ago I got pregnant. He was so excited about it. I was too. We started to make plans for marriage. Then everything began to go wrong again! I unexpectedly went over his house to spend the night and behold...I saw Paul screwing my own young cousin! 19 years old Sylvia. I stumbled out of the house that night heartbroken. But Paul never came to me that night. He must have spent the night with Sylvia. 
I decided there and then to sever the ties I had with him. The mistake I made was to tell him I was going to abort the baby. 
He swore he'd kill me if I did. The funny thing now is that he's still dating my cousin. My family and his met to deliberate on the issue but Paul has been adamant,still in the shameful relationship with my cousin. Now I don't know what to do. I cannot keep a child that will forever remind me of the father's hurt and betrayal. Each day Paul threatens me. And he was once a cultist,so he said. I'm so scared. I love my baby but I'm so sorry I can't keep it. Help.
Worried girl.


*Hmm. Worried girl,it is well. Please,please don't abort the baby. Children are gifts from God. 
Birth it. Nurture it. In future you'll be glad you did keep it. 
As regards Paul,he doesn't deserve you. You'll definitely find one who does in due time,okay?


Oya,over to you guys. You read it all. What do you advise?









12 comments:

  1. Anonymous9:08 pm

    He can do no shit! Make him write an undertaking in the police station,should anything happen to you.If you know what is good for you,you better get rid of the pregnancy or you'll forever regret that you didnt!Cheers

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  2. Anonymous9:10 pm

    You have been a very foolish girl.Did you have to tell him your plans to abort the baby?

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  3. Keep the pregnancy.

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  4. Anonymous9:14 pm

    Fast n pray against the evil spirit using your fiance.Read psalm 35 from verse 1 to the end.Thank me later.

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  5. Anonymous9:38 pm

    Pls jump into the lagoon.Foolish worried girl.

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  6. julius9:54 pm

    Pls keep the innocent child. U can get the dude arrested or as the other comment said make him sign an undertaken. He has actually made his choice between u and ur coz

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  7. I'll advice u keep d divine gift, report the matter to the police, ur family and his family too, the law will take its course if he tries anything funny, the police (if not bribed by him) will give him stipulations, and he will be made to sign an undertaking that nothing must happen to u and he must keep his distance from ya, so sweetheart, u ain't got nix to worry about

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  8. Anonymous8:09 am

    If you know what is good for you,you better get rid of that baby fast.I had a similar experience,my child is 6 now and no day his father doesn't give me hell!

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  9. Anonymous10:23 am

    Babies r give frm God. Sweetie keep the baby. A Lot of women r looking for it. Dnt abort the child n regret later. Keep d child and the great Lord will open d doors of provision. It is well with u dear

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  10. Anonymous6:09 am

    Really don't no what to say shall as a mum I advice u keep the child,but to be truthful get rid of it so u can move on to someone else because having the child will affect other suits in future some families may not want their sons to marry u so pls be wise. As for Paul he can not eat his cake and have it he can't do jack may God punish him and ur foolish cousin who opened her legs for him# sogie

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  11. Anonymous3:12 pm

    Na wa o! And the girl still dey undecided? She's crazy! Flush the pregnancy with alacrity! Na who tell the stupid Paul say belle dey in the first place?

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  12. Anonymous11:16 pm

    D days of abortion is over n if u daee it u will live with d regret all d days of ur life keep d baby he is a miracle 2 ur life don't cry plz dry ur eyes d best is yet 2 cum 4 u be prayerful ok

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