Okay,lemme gist you how this question came about :
I was at a salon yesterday when I listened in on the convo between two ladies. (only a deaf person that won't hear anyway..they were such loud talkers,jeez!!!) One of the ladies was narrating to the other how her husband was unceremoniously kicked out of his work place. And that however spelt doom for her family for she was a full-time housewife,all thanks to her hubby who wouldn't let his pretty wife do anything else other than take care of their three adorable kids!
But there was something else....her husband's boss had an eye on her. She'd in the past ignored his advances but hadn't mentioned it to her husband. Hmmm,her friend quickly jumped in at this juncture. She told her to use what she had to get what she wanted. "How your husband wan tek know?!" she queried,rolling her eyes in exasperation. "Give it to him jor and save your husband's job. To work in an oil company no be beans o! "
I was shocked. I looked at the lady who had just spoken. Oh my God,She had a wedding band on her 3rd finger.
They were still deeply engrossed in this gist even as they walked out the salon. This got me thinking afterwards...how some ladies can actually think and voice 'doing it' without batting an eyelid. What has this world turned into? Where are our values and morals? Ok,that aside..what of even our traditions that forbade a married woman of having extra -marital relationships? With disastrous consequences? Or they no longer hold? Well...i'm directing this question to you now : would you sleep with your husband's boss to save his job? Why and why not?
Keep the answers rolling peepz!!!
Hmmm,why are you shocked meme.This is not news now.I know some married women who flirt and one particularly comes to visit my neighbour,a bachelor.Who dey decieve who?One day one day breeze go open fowl yansh yakata.I jejeli siddon dey look dem.
ReplyDeleteNever.I will never cheat on my husband to saave his job because it's a sin against God and against our marriage vows. #Rita#
ReplyDeleteOooo.......that the question would have been centered on you.......:D . If it was on you.., i would ans this way......... would be a privilege to take u out on a date first then getting to know you better whilst 'sleep'.......to me wouldn't be discussed as only tro emotions one tends to realise if there are feelings for the other. ...If yes, then would be more of an 'honour' to ever do.....
ReplyDeleteLol..its only a jezebeel or delilah..dat wuld giv a thot to dat..Cos @ the end it will lead to total destruction..collapse..distrust..disrespect!
ReplyDeleteIf the wife/fiance truly love the husband/fiance..she wuld comfort him..encourage...Cos when one door is closed another is opened..
Bin sacked frm an oil company doesn't mean the end of the world...he's not even the boss or CEO,so why sweat it...
U can break out..N become yo' CEO
Or wat do u think?
No oooo! Can't do that 4 any reson, not even 2 save hubby's job co's morally it's wrong & in d site of God, & it's also against our marital vows so it's a no no 4 me.
ReplyDeleteI would never never do such act..its bad omen,its evil in the eyes of men and most especially God forbids it..for most women its easy and of cause it happens every where so its not news but as foe me..never! Let him loose the job.I believe if its his,God will work it out.
ReplyDeleteAll those ones wey you jam for saloon be hustling women(runs women)naa.They always find reasons to cheat on their spouses.
ReplyDeleteWhy not?I vowed to be there for him and that includes providing for him when the chips are down.I will not tell him about it though.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!!!! Wonders shall neva end!!! Wud neva do dat cos even apart from it been a sin it also affects innocent kids...dey start falling ill unecessarily n might even die..God forbid!
ReplyDeleteThat blunt chic: check urself before u bluntly wreclk yourself!
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