"Good Morning aunty Memelyriks.I'm 18 years old.I always read your blog, and I enjoy it so much. Please withold my Identity and post this mail for me, so that I will read what other people have to say regarding my problem. My parents are dead,and I live with my aunty and uncle,and my cousins in Ibadan.
My uncle started sleeping with me since I was 16 years old without the knowledge of my aunty. He threatened me not to say a word to anyone that he would kill me if I did and also stop paying my school fees. I'm 18 years now and he still sneaks into my room to have sex with me. Now i'm pregnant. Aunty,I don't know what to do at all.My aunty has been so good to me. I love my cousins so much too. I'm helpless. Thank you so much and God bless you.
Blessing (not real name)
Your uncle is such a bastard,my dear.How can a man act so unfeeling to his wife's little niece?The best thing to do is tell your aunty about it.It might be a difficult thing to do but please do so.Once your aunty is aware i'm sure he wouldn't go ahead with his threat.Good luck dear
ReplyDeleteYou know the way women act, if she tells the aunt,the aunt will send her out of the house and into the streets.Every woman will feel insecure knowing another person is pregnant for her husband. She should look for any of the NGOs that deal with chid and sexual abuse issues so they can get her out of that house and make the uncle face the law.The aunt will always say,its a lie,u seduced my husband and may send her for an abortion which will not be a good idea.
DeleteFind your way to a nearby police station and report to the police.Please don't make the mistake of talking to your aunty first! Who knows?She might take sides with her husband..and when that happens your life would be in great danger.
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Blessing or whatever ur name is,u must be a spoilt little gurl.At d age of 16 u were alrdy spreading ur leg for a man old enuf to be ur father! U cud hv talkd to ur aunty if u weren't enjoying it,instead u chose to be quiet abt n now u seekk advise cos ur pregnant!God will help u
ReplyDeleteBe strong dear Blessing and do not be afraid.My advise is for you to take this matter to your pastor.As a man/woman of God he'll know how to take the matter up in action &prayers.Take care.
ReplyDeleteD man is a bloody paedophile..if not wot wil attract him to his wife's16yr old gurl?#oloshoshi...he nids to b dealt wif...bastard! Report him to ur aunt asap.
ReplyDeleteMeme,I think that sixteen year old girl was enjoying d sex also,she should not have waited till she got pregnant to speak out. However she should tell her aunty.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on what she actually wants .It is not impossible she likes him and will probably wants more than the sex that has continued for about two years. In that regard different considerations will apply . Perhaps they could work out her quiet exit out of the house and from her auntie to be settled else where. If she thinks of her future as preferred, then she has to negotiate with him and remove the pregnancy without injury to herself and knowledge of her auntie and negotiate with this lover to help her through her school?
ReplyDelete@Don,how can you Say such a thing??
ReplyDeleteHonestly,your words are appalling.Plz take a chill pill if you've got nothing relevate to say!
Relevant,you mean..
ReplyDeleteNow who's taking a chill pill?air your own view n let odas do theirs.Thank me lat'r!
Does it mean, she has no other relations, besides the niece shredding old bastard uncle she's got? Well, such shit happens, but the law's sledge-hammer should come down hard on that child molester, I believe there are NGOs that would take her in and care for her, what kinda memories will the bastard child's existence give her years from now, damn that man for ruining the poor and helpless little girl's life
ReplyDeletePlease try n contact an NGO around you responsible for cases such as this.I'm sure they'll take up your case.wish you goodluck.Lest I forget to add,please don't terminate the pregnancy.alright?
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