Aside my deep-rooted beliefs as a Christian,the every-day Meme recognises that we wrestle non-stop with the weakness of the flesh and still indulge in the very things we ought not to do. Bearing this in mind,Sex before marriage occurs whether we see it as wrong or not,whether our various beliefs are bordered on what we tag as morally right or wrong! We strive on to perfection each day and until we are that perfect entity,let's begin to do the right thing. My 2cents opinion though..
See what other peepz had to say after the cut :
"I think as long as it's between consenting adults who are responsible, safe, available, and prepared for any possible consequences...married or not I believe that someone's sexual side in a relationship is prominent is in itself a way of communication, and if a relationship lacks that, it can cause a lot of problems between the couple.you may love the person you choose to marry but that person can be completely different in bed and you may not fit together at all.I believe that sex is part of a relationship, in fact, it completes it. What if you don't find out until after you're married?it let's you know what u'r in for,in the years to come."
-Chinenye Egbuta.
Port Harcourt.
"I have nothing against sex before marriage. I wouldn't marry someone I haven't dated. And in my books, you cannot beat chest and say she's your girlfriend without coitus.
But seriously, u cannot call a girl u have not had sex with ur girlfriend, can u?"
-Don.M
Lagos.
"Sex is a thing of d mind,if u feel safe wit ur partner; it's up 2 u"
-Star Madam.
Calabar.
"Huuuun sex before marriage, d matter b as e get eeeee. To sm people, nt good atall, y to some; very necessary because these men want to know if d girl or wife to b is fertile. According to d Bible which states dat sex before marriage is wrong, and also a sin. And dat is absolutely true."
-Cordelia.
Benin city.
"I don't ve anytin against it cos ...me..mysef am guilty of it.
N I don't say mesef stopping yet...
Until I find the perfect one...in all aspects n esp..."sexually"...
As' far say she no carry belle!
B4 marriage
89% of pple are guilty of pre-marital sex"
-Taj.
Benin City.
"Its okay cuz u r nt marrying a virgin"
-Dafe.
Benin city.
"This is a difficult subject particularly in developing countries. Its discussion often appeals to religiously charged emotion rather than reason. It amazes me, though, that such medieval requirement still has a place in the 21st century.It is a requirement that prospered in the days when women were seen as mere possessions to men. Those days have long passed and such requirements should be confined to history."
-S.I
Australia.
"Its a no no when one decides to do it God's way"
-Jaski Bakar.
Benin city.
"For me i think i will go with the biblical opinion on sex before marriage which is no sex at all unitil married ...if done before marrage is considered as fornication which is against the bible and most of all sin in the sight of God..its not easy to fight it, i mean am human but we can try and pray too."
-Nky
Lagos state.
"Sex b4 married is very very owk....so you go knw weda †ђε gal sabi dø the doingX_X"
-Oby.
Lagos State.
"The condemnation of sex before marriage between two adults is a ridiculous proposal that should have long gone with the stone age"
#S#
Anonymous location.
"Anyway sex b4 marriage is not owk...to sum reasons...cos a lot of guy end up not marrying d lady in d sense dt dey hv slept nd mis use d gal....after sleeping wit you dts wen †ђε lady will hear dey cnt marry 4rm ur village or dere mother married sum1 4rm †ђε village 4dem"
-Anne
Lagos State.
"Sex before marriage for me is really that much of a big deal...i call it bonding,it makes a relationship stronger and you understand each other better,its like u know each other inside out nothing to hide..."
-Ulooma
Lagos State.
"Sex AND Marriage are both overrated"
-Shiaman
Lagos State.
*Lemme get to read yours...okay?#Smiling#
Nothing wrong so far d 2 party agree
ReplyDeletepersonally i advocate sex before taking vows. you need to start this journey without any doubt in your mind and no anxiety. thats what you gonna be doing in the union anyway, why wait? i have hit a number of virgins and i had no value for it, they come so stupid anyway...when we place too much emphasis on sex it negates the very tenents of a long lasting relationships as it has be set as a hurdle, once you cross it its a new ball game.- kasala
ReplyDeleteSex before marriage is as important as the marriage itself..i wont buy a car without taking it for a test drive...although the bible frowns at it but hey!!!!a girl has got to find out what size of engine she'll be working with. Mammi from asaba.
ReplyDeleteI believe the cultural and social realities we are confronted with today makes it inevitable.All those cultural and religious taboos have now been blurred so it's now nolonger a question of if you should have sexbefore marriage but is now a question of how soon after you start dating you should have sex
ReplyDelete-CJS
Sex before marriage is No according to our religions but we need to find other ways to know if we are sexually compatible with our partner or else spouses will be cheating on each other
ReplyDelete-Sheegs Adeogun
Most of the comments here are so so hilarious,jeeeeeeez! Sex before marriage is like tea with sugar.
ReplyDelete-Femi Otote
Sex b4 marriage to me is very important cos there will be no use getting married to a man dat cannot satisfy ur sexual desires.That will result in sleeping out which is abominable.
ReplyDeleteMarriage or not we must f**k dear.
ReplyDeleteIt's against God's principles.We should adhere to God's commandments jare,makes life simpler.
ReplyDeleteI Must sample wetin I wan pay for now?There's no 2 ways about it...Many girls are all beauty with no performance!
ReplyDeleteMake una fear God!
ReplyDeleteIf God says DON'T,then DON'T!!!
Jesus Christ! How my people perish for lack of knowledge, what will happen if the rapture sounds or death creeps in while u are unrepentantly at it, what will become of your eternity, where will y'all spend your everlasting life? In heaven or in hell? Truth be told, it's not easy not to defile the bed before marriage, and I ain't a saint, neither am I exempted or holier than you all, I'll do the right thing this time, at least, but if we all keep testing before buying, all our forbidden fruits would have gotten old and worn out before we get our Mr./Mrs. Right, you may even get to find out later on after marriage, that your friends or siblings had burned (slept with) your spouse before u got married, all in the name of testing b4 buying. So think! So u don't stink.
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